Yes... we are intelligent and smart and beautiful!! And proud of it too! Not "arrogant" as you put it. And why shouldn't we be! You can't stand it when you see a girl more confident than yourself... and you call it arrogance! And you question our beauty! Well that's a lot to digest from someone like you. If you are so busy with all the little things that you do and you don't even have the time to bathe (or shave or get a haircut or change your shirt more than once a week)..... then we can definitely be pardoned for not having the time or patience to look like Christmas trees.
And what else? Too "career-oriented"? "Self-centred"? Well shouldn't we be? Aren't you? Nobody is going to give us jobs for our culinary skills (which might not be so good, but they are better than yours any day) . And we use you, do we? Stop being used, for starters. And secondly, hasn't a guy ever taken advantage of you "naive" nature? Stop generalizing. Live with it.
You say that you are much humbler than we are. We behave like "queens", do we? O well, you can't really afford to act like a king, can you? Unfortunately, we are heavily outnumbered out here by you guys and no girl is going to pay any attention to you if you start behaving like you own the world. So, for you, being nice is kind of the only option. And trust me, if the day ever comes that we outnumber you (I pray for that happy day) then your "niceness" towards us will decrease considerably. And then I am going to say "I told you so!".
In the meantime, try dating a guy.
